tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242783291316296809.post7278025444198054113..comments2024-03-28T04:09:50.560-06:00Comments on Neighbor Julia: Some Thoughts On MiscarriageJuliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01038620914974981518noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242783291316296809.post-20376320004431275522010-11-03T21:04:03.807-06:002010-11-03T21:04:03.807-06:00Brittney,
My sister Christina lives in Provo too(...Brittney,<br /> My sister Christina lives in Provo too(like right on the line between Provo and Springville!) I will definitely check out your blog!Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038620914974981518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242783291316296809.post-64799077885879954792010-11-03T20:31:27.609-06:002010-11-03T20:31:27.609-06:00Julia,
We're still in Provo. Good times :). ...Julia, <br /><br />We're still in Provo. Good times :). Things are good. You can check out my blog at: www.stubmax.blogspot.com. <br /><br />Love to see your cute family. <br /><br />BrittneyBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11179240927693522920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242783291316296809.post-86779584276633032972010-10-29T20:28:21.294-06:002010-10-29T20:28:21.294-06:00Rachel-
Thanks for checking out my blog! I'm ...Rachel-<br />Thanks for checking out my blog! I'm sorry to hear that you had a miscarriage too! That would be hard to have a pregnant sister at the same time. I'm not really the most fun baby shower guest right now if you know what I mean :-) Thanks for your comment!<br /><br />Brittney-<br />I'm sorry to hear about your struggle with this right now! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I definitely have to talk about things when I'm going through something. I agree that we should sit around and blab! :-) Where are you guys living right now? Thanks for finding my blog! I hope you keep commenting!Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038620914974981518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242783291316296809.post-51090263551126750132010-10-29T13:57:29.552-06:002010-10-29T13:57:29.552-06:00Hi Julia - long time no see. I just found your blo...Hi Julia - long time no see. I just found your blog, what a great idea. Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. As one of those who has struggled with infertility for the past 2 years 8 months (but who's counting? :) ). I learned to give up the notion of planning. Of course changing your personality is hard to do, but peace and acceptance brings well...peace. It all works out in the end right? <br /><br />Thanks for sharing your thoughts, it's funny how much we never know about our closest friends. We all struggle with something and I too wish we could all just sit around and blab about the hard truth. It would be therapeutic for all. <br /><br />Best of luck and wishes. <br /><br />BrittneyBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11179240927693522920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242783291316296809.post-4741738847645853682010-10-29T08:10:04.831-06:002010-10-29T08:10:04.831-06:00Julia, first I think your blog is wonderful. I wi...Julia, first I think your blog is wonderful. I will definetely keep reading and let other know about it. I too went through a miscarriage before Abby and it was hard especially because Maria was pregnant at the same time. Thank you for your thoughts and I'm so sorry that you experienced this trial.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00313146141571308936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242783291316296809.post-35831343911525618712010-10-28T22:53:39.669-06:002010-10-28T22:53:39.669-06:00Abbie,
Thanks for commenting! I always read your ...Abbie,<br />Thanks for commenting! I always read your blog through facebook and then forget to go back and comment! You're descriptions of things always crack me up :-) I too love the diet virgin cuba libre! I hope you keep reading and commenting! <br /><br />Beth,<br />Thanks for your comments! I know that we've talked about miscarriage before but I finally get some of what you had said before! I really need to call you soon and talk about this stuff (sorry I hadn't yet...I didn't really know how to bring it up) But it's been about 2 months now so I'm kind of at the point you were talking about...where the hurt has gone down so I'm open to peoples responses! And it seems like a ton of people have one before the 3rd baby...thats when my mom had her first miscarriage also. Anyway, thanks for your comments and I'm glad that people are checking out my new blog! I know that you always talk about books and recipes and things like that on your blog and I just thought that was something that was really neat! I still love my kids and husband too...I just sometimes need to prove to myself that I'm actually doing things with my time and not just washing the same dishes and folding the same clothes over and over! :-)Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038620914974981518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242783291316296809.post-48493997943681801772010-10-28T20:27:19.134-06:002010-10-28T20:27:19.134-06:00Julia, I'm so, so sorry! Your thoughts on mis...Julia, I'm so, so sorry! Your thoughts on miscarriage resonated with me. Yes, it does feel isolating, because you are hurting so much on the inside but don't feel like you can talk about it. I remember wanting to tell my friends, but they hadn't even known I was pregnant. I hadn't wanted to tell them yet "in case something happens" -- well, that was silly, because when something *did* happen, I didn't feel like I could tell them! I was afraid of how they'd respond -- would they feel obligated to give me sympathy? Or would they just brush it off? Neither of those responses seemed adequate, and so it took me many months before I told people, when most of the hurt was already gone, so not so much was weighing on their responses. <br /><br />Also, I was brand new in my ward, but I was blessed to quickly gain a new friend, my visiting teaching companion, who'd also just gone through a miscarriage (which also would have been her third baby). So I did have someone to talk to, at least. <br /><br />Thanks for sharing this. I am glad you started this blog (I'm excited to see more about *you* -- not that I don't love my nieces and my brother!).Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13870296621798497300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6242783291316296809.post-39934920076298063132010-10-28T17:54:26.202-06:002010-10-28T17:54:26.202-06:00Thanks for sharing! I'm excited to keep up on ...Thanks for sharing! I'm excited to keep up on your blog! AbbieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com